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Speed Review: Pre-Suasion

Speed Review: Pre-Suasion

Speed Review: Pre-Suasion

A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade

by Robert Cialdini

Social psychologist and best-selling author Robert Cialdini shines a light on effective persuasion and reveals that the secret is not in the message itself, but in the key moment before that message is delivered. Altering a listener’s attitudes, beliefs, or experiences isn’t necessary. Cialdini outlines the specific techniques you can use. He illustrates how the artful diversion of attention leads to successful pre-suasion and gets your targeted audience primed and ready to say, “Yes.”

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Say That One Thing at the Right Time

In 1984, a book by unknown psychologist Robert Cialdini purported to show the world the best way to influence people. Influence would become an international best-seller and help introduce the concept of social psychological analysis to a skeptical world.

In Pre-Suasion, his first solo work since 1984, Cialdini adds a new take to the art of influence. “Pre-Suasion,” as he calls it, is the ability to do or say that one thing at just the right time before attempting to influence someone.

For example, Cialdini tells the story of Jim, a fire-alarm system salesman who consistently sold significantly more of his company’s expensive systems than any other salesman. When Cialdini accompanied Jim, he saw only one thing that Jim did differently from the rest: While the prospects were filling out a fire-alarm test, he would invariably say that he had forgotten something in the car and ask if he could go get it. Because the prospects were in the middle of the test, this involved letting himself back in the house, sometimes with the help of a borrowed key.

How was this planned forgetfulness helping Jim sell his alarm systems? The reason, according to Cialdini, is that letting someone enter the house on his own, with or without a key, is a sign of trust; subconsciously, Jim’s little (slightly unethical) charade made him much more trustworthy to the prospects, who were thus more inclined to believe his argument that they should have the system. Jim had instinctively discovered the power of pre-suasion.

As Cialdini explains, there is a moment in time just before the attempt to influence (e.g., a sales pitch or a speech) called a “privileged moment”; during this window of opportunity, influencers should get the people they are trying to focus on something that will help the influencer’s cause.

Here’s a simple (and actual) example from a research test. The researchers stopped people in a mall and asked them to fill out a survey. Only 29 percent agreed to participate. The researchers then started stopping people and asking, “Do you consider yourself helpful?” Invariably, most of those people (77.3 percent) responded yes and filled out the survey. The response rate went from under 30 percent to more than 77 percent ... just because of one simple question.

Channeling Attention

As with Cialdini’s first book, Pre-Suasion is filled with the science and research that explain the social psychological foundations of pre-suasion. The key component is the power of channeling someone’s attention. Whatever you draw attention to, Cialdini shows, that item becomes very important in the person’s mind.

Cialdini also demonstrates that focus is causal: What you are focused on becomes a cause of something. One way he demonstrates this effect relates to the placement of TV cameras in a conversation. When the camera view is over the shoulder of one person and thus directed to the other person, that other person’s perceived (by those watching) influence on the conversation is much greater. This is why police interrogations are no longer focused over the shoulder of the detectives and directed at the suspects: Juries automatically assigned responsibility for the crime to the defendants even when, as proven later through DNA, the defendants were not guilty. (This example focuses on the amazing plurality of false confessions, too complex to describe here, but just another of the fascinating insights offered in this book.)

Having compellingly shown the power of focusing attention during the “privileged moments,” Cialdini addresses in detail the “what” that attention should be focused on — that is, what will lead to successful influence and persuasion. Association plays a key role — draw the right association, and the behavior will follow. As Cialdini explains, “We convince others by using the language that manages their mental associations to our message.” Thoughts, perceptions and emotional reactions will flow from those associations. For example, during World War II, Jewish leaders convinced Japanese leaders not to heed Nazi arguments to persecute the Jews, by associating the Jews to a place (Asia), while the Nazis were foreigners. You should not listen to the Nazis, one Rabbi said in a seminal meeting, “because we are Asian, like you.”

Pre-Suasion is filled with astounding stories such as these, which support a groundbreaking text on influence and persuasion that deserves to become as iconic as Cialdini’s first book.

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